Creative Date Ideas for the Young and Young at Heart
Valentine's Day is coming up fast, and the last thing you want is for your partner to think, 'Dinner and a movie, again?' Don't get stuck in a rut with your dates; keep things fun and interesting by mixing it up a bit. Go on an adventure - do something unexpected and wild, romantic and memorable. We've put together a list of the kind of dates you'll be telling your grandchildren about. You can use them year-round, and they might even inspire you to come up with a list of your own ideas.
- Many couples have thought of watching the sun set together, but what about making an exciting pre-dawn trip to a beautiful outdoor spot to watch the sun rise? Hills, mountains and beaches provide great views, but you can do this practically anywhere. Bring a picnic breakfast and cook it over a campfire, enjoying some hot delicious food and warm beverages together.
- Pack a cooler, a map, and some walking shoes and go on a weekend road trip to visit oddball roadside attractions in your area. RoadsideAmerica.com is a great guide for checking out all kinds of offbeat museums, monuments and mystery spots that may have been right under your nose for years. Don't forget to bring a camera - you won't want to be without one when you come across such gems as Miniature Golf in a Funeral Home, the Sock Monkey Museum or the Cathedral of Junk.
- If you know another couple or two who'd like to join in on the fun, plan a scavenger hunt. Give each team a phone book, a Polaroid or digital camera, a notebook & pen, a map, and a list of things you want them to find or collect. To make sure it's fair, you should have a non-participating party come up with the list. Each item on your list can have a different point value depending upon difficulty - for example, a game token from a movie theater might be worth one point while a picture of both team members sitting on a kiddie ride outside a grocery store is worth five. For a higher level of difficulty, each item on the list can be presented as a puzzle or riddle.
- Get in the car and drive in a direction you've never gone. This is a really great way to get to know your area in a new way; take a road you've never been down, and see where you end up. You might get lucky and find a great scenic drive, a perfect picnic spot or a breathtaking view. Make sure you have a map and a full tank of gas so you'll be able to get back home easily.
- Go to your local chamber of commerce and gather brochures for activities and places to visit in your area. Chances are, you'll find there are a lot of things you never even knew about, that provide great opportunities for creative dates. Apple picking, canoeing, ice skating, and horseback riding are just a small sampling of the kinds of activities you might find.
- Gather up some seeds, shovels and hoes and plant a garden together. You can choose a spot in your own yard, a community garden, or do it as an act of charity for a family in need. It will be really special to come back in the future and see how everything you planted has grown!
- Get one of those fun little mini-golf kits and play in the snow. Make sure the balls are brightly colored so you won't lose them! Playing at night is even more fun - flashlights and the moon reflecting off the snow will give your surroundings an otherworldly feel. Bring along some hot cocoa or another warming beverages.
- On a clear night, plan on having a picnic anywhere you'll have a good view of the stars. Bring a book of constellations (and a flash light, so you'll be able to read it) and find them in the sky together. Enjoy some chocolates and a bottle of wine or champagne, and bring a picnic blanket so you'll stay warm and cozy.
- Take a class together for something fun like photography, dancing or cooking. Most community colleges have what are often called 'continuing education' courses where you can learn a fun new hobby that may even turn into a serious passion. You'll have a great time developing prints in a darkroom or learning how to make a perfect flambe.
- Pack a picnic lunch and see the sights from a whole new angle on a hot air balloon. Chances are you'll have a company no more than an hour away that provides this service, and it's less expensive than you might think. This is definitely an impressive date, and would make a great surprise - it might even provide the perfect opportunity to pop the question!